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Subject: Do I have depression? What do I do?

The question was submitted Friday, 18 September 2009

Hi
I am 20 years old and I don't know if I have depression. Almost everyday I feel unmotivated and hopeless and yet I can still talk to people and be myself. Sometimes I will go at least several months being extremely happy or calm and then I will spend the next few months being very down. I over-eat and then at times I make myself throw up. But this happens every now and then not always. I have also been in an abusive relationship for 3 years and I am scared to get out of it. I recently broke up with him and experienced at least 6 weeks of joy but then I didn't trust myself or have enough faith so I ran back. I can't speak to anyone in my life and my mother constantly makes me feel unworthy. I have not spoken to my father in a year after he hit me and I called the police. I also am lying every single day about everything. Recently I lied to my boyfriend and friends that I was pregnant when I wasn't. Is this a condition? Sometimes I want to die. But I think I am just trying to feel sorry for myself and maybe everyone experiences this. Please reply here as my email is inactive at the moment. Thankyou.

Answer from DepNet

The answer was published on DepNet Friday, 9 October 2009



Hello “Do I Have Depression”,


While it’s impossible to be certain from your mail it is certainly possible that you have a mood disorder. You might also have some personality vulnerabilities that interfere with your capacity to achieve optimal interpersonal functioning. The combination of these 2 disorders is obviously worse than either 1 of them alone.


I believe that it’s important that you see a psychiatrist to receive a proper assessment of your condition(s).