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Path to Nowhere

A page in the diary "The Words Behind My Tears"
Written by kcdbooks 7. May 2005 01:31 AM

Maybe you don't understand, but I lost my mother years ago.

Long before her alcohol dependancy became apparent, I lost my mother. The trust is gone, the sympathy is gone, I have nothing left.

There is nothing that will bring her back to the mother that I have always wanted. There is nothing that will bring back those nostalgic days of Kindergarten. There is nothing that will bring back the love that is supposed to be there.

Why? Why? Why? This is hurting your family - if you loved us you would stop. The bottle is more important than us, that hurts. You no longer seem to care about tucking us into bed at night, but rather when you will get your next drink. "Where are you?" no longer implies that you care about my wherabouts, but rather about if I am gong to see you take a slug of your poison.

I lost you long ago, and now it has become apparent. I have seen you drunk, I have seen you wet your pants, cry, and pass out. I have also seen you detox - and oh, that was hard. I cleaned you up when you wet your pants. I put you on the bed when you had a seizure, I calmed you down when you were hallucinating. Where did that get me? Absolutely nowhere. Here I am, writing this as you sit in your drunken haze, again.

I wish I felt something for you, but there is nothing there. Cold and hard that may be, but I can't take the pain that you are inflicting.

To all of those deppies who have lost someone long ago, but their body remains, there is a tear shed for you tonight.

kcdbooks

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Comments from the community:

hey kc
when ever i read something you write im amazed your a very good writter. im so sorry for all the pain you must be feeling at the moment. wish i could take it all away for you. no one deserves as much as you must be going through. i dont really know what to say hmmf. i hope things become easier for you even though the slightest change it'd still be dat hard for ya. iunno im sorry kc i hope you find something that gives you comfort.
love manda

Written by mandoushh, 7. May 2005 01:52 AM

Dearest KC,


I extend my arms open to you with MUCH SUPPORT
LOVE & LIGHT.


BLESS your heart.

XOOXOOXOXOOOXOXOXOOXOXOXOXOXXOXOOXXOXOXOXOXOXO

Written by Anonymous, 7. May 2005 02:10 AM

KC,
There was a tear shed for your loss last night, and a wish made on a star, for your future to be happier, and brighter than even you could imagine.

If love and frienship can ease the pain. You have mine today.
Chy xx

Written by Chy, 7. May 2005 01:43 PM

Hey there deppies,

Mandy, thanks so much for your compliment ( I know you don't like thank yous, but this one is necessary). I always find that the writing comes from a place deep down. When I think I have nothing left, I find this place that needs emotions expressed, and out they come. Thats why the writing is the way it is.

Shelley, thank you for always offering support, love and light. It is great to know that there is someone there.

Chy, thank you so much for your wish. Sometimes it seems like no amount of wishing will take this away, but to know that there is someone else out there, wishing for a little peace and happiness - its great. Thank you.

Take care,
kcdbooks

Written by kcdbooks, 7. May 2005 08:38 PM

"Hi" :) KC,

I popped in to see how your weekend has been,and to send you a BIG hug and MUCH love.

(((((((((((((((((((KC))))))))))))))))))))))

XOXOXOXOXOXOOXOOXXOOXOOXOXOXOOXOXOOOOXOXOXOXO

Written by Anonymous, 8. May 2005 04:20 AM

Hey Shelley,

You're up early! My weekend been just fine, thanks for asking. I had a haircut yesterday!!!

Today I will be doing some baking and then going to work. I've been trying to aviod homelife etc. to make life a little easier.

How had your weekend been?

Take care,
kcdbooks

Written by kcdbooks, 8. May 2005 11:02 AM

"H" :) KC,

LoL "oh no sweet i hadn't been to bed yet!",my entry to you was around 0ne or two Sunday morn, at times i can be a bit of a night owl ;)

I'm glad to read your weekend has gone well :) I always feel like a new woman after cut and colour ;)

Mmmm baking sounds yummy!.

My weekend has been lovely "thank you".

Have a great week ahead.

Take care of your WONDERFUL self.

XOXO

Written by Anonymous, 9. May 2005 01:42 AM

I am amazed at your strength and ability to express yourself.

You are a one of a kind person.

*hugs*

Written by ellif, 10. May 2005 01:45 PM

Hey there elli,

Thanks heaps! It's amazing what you can write when you are so upset and angry! Hee hee. If only all of my writing came out in the same way.

Thanks again.

Take care,
kcdbooks

Written by kcdbooks, 10. May 2005 05:45 PM

Dearest KC,
words cannot express my feeling for you as a daughter and woman and little girl.

Sending you my warm love wrapped in serenity, peace, with a dash of glitter for your tears.

Love always, Image oxoxox

Written by image, 10. May 2005 09:40 PM

Hey there Image,

Thanks heaps! I left a note in your latest entry.....

Take care,
kcdbooks

Written by kcdbooks, 11. May 2005 11:46 AM