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Playing Her Game

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Written by kcdbooks 18. Apr 2005 01:49 AM

Hey there deppies,

I just wanted to say that I am on holiday in Cambodia and having the time of my life!! So much suffering has been endured by these people and it makes me put mine into perspective. So many of these people are living in abject poverty, wondering whether or not they will see another day. Visiting here has given me an appreciation for the great gifts that I have. I am so lucky to have a roof over my head and another meal when needed.

I just thought that I would share with you some of my learnings from this trip. I think that often times a little time away from the hustle and bustle of city life can do a world of good.

Having said all of this, I am so worried about going back to Australia. It has been so easy for me to put all of my problems in the backseat and appreciate the beauty, but I am afraid that hiding these inner emotions will come back and bite me sometime soon. I am so worried about having to deal with my mother again,and play all of her games. I am not looking forward to hiding her secrets and tiptoing around her problems. I am not looking forward to having to experience all of these uncomfortable emotions again - I am so ready for it to all be over.

In the back of my head is the same question, "how much longer?". This questions continues to haunt me and I just can't see myself continuing. I am so sick and tired of playing her games - I want it to be my game now - but I can't. I just have to keep going. I just have to keep wading through. I just have to keep grinning and bearing it, hoping that one day something will change.

Take care on you journies to health,
kcdbooks

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Comments from the community:

Dearest KC,

"Oh sweet heart!","THANK YOU!" for dropping by whilst on holiday, and sharing your travels.:)

"WOW!" what an AMAZING place,i bet your having a ball :) enjoy every AMAZING second.

Our Assian friends are AMAZING people arn't they KC?, we can learn so much from theire culture and philosophies on life. Yes we are a VERY lucky country.

Try not to worry about home at this present time KC,enjoy the now hun.

You Know i wish the VERY BEST for you and your Mum. I hope one day she sees clearly to her ways and how they effect you. Mabey you could write her a letter and send it to her whilst your away,letting her know just how deep her problem is hurting you.

I send MUCH SUPPORT,LIGHT & LOVE.

Take good care of your WONDERFUL SELF :)

And have fun XOXOXOXOXXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

Written by Anonymous, 18. Apr 2005 02:22 AM

Oh KC,
I wanna be over there with you!! I am hanging to get away and Cambodia sounds like a beautifl place.. Stay in the moment and build your energy honeypot! Try not to let the worries of your mum interfere with the experience you are having ..
xx
Buckskin

Written by Buckskin, 18. Apr 2005 01:38 PM

Dear kd, how wonderful that you are having a well deserved holiday and break from the daily grind...as Shelley has said...live each day while you are away in the now and just be open to all new experiences and adventures while away! So pleased for you to be enjoying this new experience...travel safely...

Take care...
Blu xxx

Written by Anonymous, 18. Apr 2005 01:43 PM

Hey there Shelley, Buckskin and Blu,

It's so nice to hear from you all. Another wonderful day in another wonderful place!

Feeling a bit sick, so I'm going to lie down, but enjoy every moment of the rest of your week.

Take care,
kcdbooks

Written by kcdbooks, 19. Apr 2005 02:03 AM