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hang in there nouse. It will get better easier, i used to feel like things were hopeless and there was noway out. but things do get more bearable, of course there are always bad days. but hold hope for the good ones.
take care, love em

Written by esp, 26. Feb 2008 11:08 PM

Hi nouse,

I know your going thru a tough time, that is so obvious to me in many ways but please dont stop going on chat.

I can understand that you feel you cant go on chat cause you might say the wrong thing and upset others and that is very considerate of you but at the same time...you need support like the rest of us.

Maybe you could come on chat and talk privately to just one person, someone who wont be offended if you do say the wrong thing.

I know people sometimes just say things but did'nt mean to offend anyone by it so any time you need to chat, i want you to feel free to chat to me if you feel others will get upset by what you say but there are plenty of great people on chat who do understand and wont be offended.

Times are tough nouse, i understand that and believe me...we all have very tough times and i wont pretend to understand your situation as i'm not in the same boat as you but i can sence your hurting so much just from the chats with you and this entry.

From personal experience, being scared of yourself is a little worrying but the fact you acknowledge this is good as it makes you realize that you may hurt others and thou un-intentionally, you have the oportunity to seek help if needed in order to overcome this and hopefully prevent hurting others.

Your not any different from anyone else nouse,sure you may have different problems than others but your still a human and we all need to be cared for, listened to, understood, loved...we all need to feel wanted and to be able to chat with others for support, understanding, advice and help.

Anyway, i hope i have'nt upset or offended you by any comment i've just made here cause it was'nt my intention and please...please come on depnet and chat to someone...dont feel isolated and alone, there are people who will listen to you.

Take care nouse

mickm

Written by Deleted_User, 27. Feb 2008 11:17 AM

Nouse

Hang in there and if hubby is away, then perhaps look at going into hospital when he comes back. If things are not well for you, you need to be in a save environment and your psychiatrist has suggested hospital and that is a good place to be for your safety. Hope you can manage to cope until hubby comes back home.

Go Nouse!!!

Studying1

Written by studying1, 27. Feb 2008 05:19 PM

Hi Nouse,
I have noticed you on chat some nights. Please join us as I am sure you will not hurt anyones feelings.
Maybe we can help you.
Patricia xx

Written by Deleted_User, 27. Feb 2008 08:49 PM