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Written by hellhole 1. Nov 2008 06:38 PM

For once things r starting to look up for me but i wonder if it'll last. my A.D. are making me feel a bit more level unlike my usual rollercoaster. Im looking into getting a loan to buy my own house with the help of my folks. this means i can get some of my independence back, although my mum will probably still be there a lot & call when shes not. She doesnt think i can cope with everything especially looking after my kids by myself. Im going to look at a house on mon.

I went to a friends bbq last weekend, first social thing i been to in a long time. i think it was a bit of a setup but. i think my friend was trying to set me up with his other friend who split up with his ex a few months ago, id going through similar issues with her as i am with my ex. we got along well but i dunno if anything else will happen. Knowing me id stuff it all up anyway. Our kids all got along well to.

My baby is now 5 months old & his fathers only seen him twice briefly since birth. great men i picked to be the fathers of my children hey, one sees his a couple of times a year but gives some money for him. His a lousy father. One contributed nothing, takes care of him zero & doesnt even wana admit his his, his a deadbeat dad!
My other son keeps asking for his dad & i dont know what to tell him. I used to just say away but his getting older, nearly 4 now so wants to know more soon. his less then half an hour away but never here. until recently was around the corner from us & still never saw him.

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Comments from the community:

Hi,
Got ditched by my Mrs about 20 years ago. Two of my kids have done the same. That is not my problem, it is their problem and anyway it is in the past and you can't change that.
See what happens with the guy, you never know what it might turn out like. I never thought I would be "lucky in love". I was so wrong.
I wanted to see my kids and had to fight in the courts for access.
I know you got kids but see if you can do something regular each week or two and see where you take your life. Good luck, hope it happens good for you.
Countryjohn

Written by Countryjohn, 1. Nov 2008 09:28 PM

Hellhole

Glad things are getting better for you. Hope you can get the home loan and get a nice place for you all. Mothers are all like that and you are lucky to have one who comes over.

Glad you got out to a bbq.

Glad the kids are well. Sorry things are not working with the dads.

Go Hellhole!!!

Mrs Studying1

Written by studying1, 3. Nov 2008 08:53 PM