big changes
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Written by hellhole 9. Aug 2008 10:05 PM
As i hit an all time low i find myself having to move with my kids back to my folks. They dont feel i can care or support them properly by myself physically, emotionally or financially. My boys have different dads neither are there for them. One pays child support but only comes round a couple of times a year, the other deserted us when i was pregnant, refuses to sign the birth certificate so he doesnt have to pay child support, but yet sought legal action against me for visitation rights. Because im not geting child support im losing a big chunk of my pension as a penalty from centrelink, coping a $1200 fine for birth certificate not processed within 60 days, i sent it there they sent it back wont do it without fathers signature. Legal aid wont help me case not enough, said all i can do is mediation which is expensive, if that dont work then court. So with all this & my bills i am struggling. So instead of moving forward im having to move backwards & move in with my parents. They think they can do a better job with my kids then i can. that they need a family environment & i cant give them that. Im pretty sure they just want the kids not me & will do what they usually do when we visit & take over everything brush me aside & criticise everything i do. So im in the process of moving eeverything now. A lot of our stuff will have to go to storage for we dont have room for it, other stuff i'll have to get rid of. I'm not sure if im making a big mistake...