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I AM OUT OF HERE !!!!!!

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Written by Mikey 16. Feb 2008 01:02 AM

Im a shit magnet, another night in the chatroom of seeing death threats and insults towards other members, every time i have gone in there over the past month, there is someone causing trouble.
I dont seem tobe getting anything out of depnet like i use to. Its doing my head in to much to stay. I realise not everyone is going to get on and i except that, but what i cant except is people getting on just to cause trouble to other members.
Just to name a few: apples, applesagain, meagain, sahraj and the latest one Rachellegirl, there has been so many i cant remember them all.
I need to take time out for my own health, and i hope you all understand that.

I love you all

Mikey xxx

Ps.I will stay incontact to those who have my MSN address. For those who want to contact me and dont have it, just ask in your replies and somehow ill give it to you.

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Comments from the community:

U need 2 look afta YOU Mikey.
Believe me, u DONT need th shit & nor do u hav 2 take it onboard!
At th end of th day u can always turn off yr comp...
How bout u start focusin on th gym work again matey, take yr power bac 4 YOU!xx
U hav my number... Use it!

Written by Gyps, 16. Feb 2008 01:47 AM

hi mikey,

i'm sorry about the constant trouble on depnet, two of those trouble makers were there to cause trouble for me and i know one has gone and pretty sure the other one will go tomorrow.

i'm sorry that these two people felt that by coming on depnet to hurt me they could take it out on all of you as well, its selfish of them

I know i cant controll what they say but i feel partly responible for letting them become my friends on here only to turn nasty when i tell them this is not a dating site.

I am truly sorry mate, i really mean it.

I cant express enough the sorrow and pain i feel for all of you and wish this had never happened but it has so all i can do is apolagize for people who have serious problems.

Please come back, your a good bloke and you going would be a loss to us all.

Take care and hope to see you back soon

mickm

Written by Deleted_User, 16. Feb 2008 02:03 AM

Mike

You are not a shitmagnet. Don't ever think you are that.

You know what to do, report the people that are causing problems - it is so liberating. Mick is right some of them are unfortunately his friends and using depnet to create tension.

You're above all this crap. Report what happened to the moderators and put it to bed. Please stay because you need depnet's good people which you know exist and depnet needs you to not throw in the towel when it is tough.

Go Mike!!!

Studying1

Written by studying1, 16. Feb 2008 03:50 AM

Hi mike
Wish i knew what to do to help u, u know i'm always there for u any time u want to talk.
It would help everyone if people could keep their personal disputes out of the chat room, if u are'nt there to be supportrive and friendly to others then piss off, think it's time the moderaters played a more active roll in the chat room so they could see whats going on. I'm also spending less and less time in there, i'm just glad i have my msn contacts.
Take care mike, u know i care about u.

(((((((((((((((mike))))))))))))))

B1

Written by bananas, 16. Feb 2008 07:23 AM



Told you last night Mikey, it's nothing to do with you that these clowns get on here and disturb the rest of us. I will miss you on Dep but I too have the aded advantage of being an mns buddy. You take care my friend and you have all my details, so dont be afraid to use them 24/7. Take as long as U need to feel good about coming back on. youre Number 1 in the Mikey books and worth waiting for.

Love ya kid xx

Written by lesleyk, 16. Feb 2008 07:44 AM

Returner

Its coments by people like you who have no idea, is the reason im leaving, you mentioned one issue which i was having problems with, yes i brought that on myself, but havent brought all the rest of the crap thats been going on on myself. And i didnt want that issue plasted all over depnet, it was a private matter im trying to deal with outside depnet, dont even know how you found out about it.
And also your coments has been deleted, but before that i copied and pasted and made a complaint to depnet, in no way was your coments supportive, it was put on there to cause trouble and nothing else. Thanks for that.

Mikey

Written by Mikey, 16. Feb 2008 09:38 AM

Mickm

I dont blame you at all for these screwed up people causing trouble. they are responsable for their own actions.

Take care

Mikey

Written by Mikey, 16. Feb 2008 09:43 AM

Hello Mikey,
I heard a lot of what was said on depchat late last night and early hours of this morning. Things did settle down, and before my internet booted me off, everyone was having some fun, so that was great to be able to have a laugh.
There are so many emotionl members on depnet at present. I am fairly new, but please stay as things did get better in chat and a laugh was had by everyone. Not sure what happened after I got booted though.
Hugs Patricia xx

Written by Deleted_User, 16. Feb 2008 10:07 AM

Hi Mikey

I reported Returner a few days ago and the mods have been keeping their eyes out. Now that you have also reported them they will almost certainly be blocked or banned.

apples, applesagain and meagain were all the same person and keep coming back in new reincarnations. Each time the mods catch up with them - by good people reporting them - they are banned.

nothappy has been blocked this week, as has sarahj. We need for everyone who gets bad comments on their diaries to copy and send to the mods, and everyone who has problems on chat to copy the screen and paste that into a message to the mods. This is the only way we will succeed again the trouble-makers.

I hope that you decide to stay Mikey. You are one of the good people.

Written by Deleted_User, 16. Feb 2008 10:16 AM

Its already been pointed out 2 the mods the belief that "returner" is "apples"

Written by Gyps, 16. Feb 2008 12:15 PM

And given "frustrated" 2 days ago... But has an awful lot of knowledge... WHO R U PLEASE???

Written by Gyps, 16. Feb 2008 12:28 PM

And given "frustrated" JOINED 2 days ago... But has an awful lot of knowledge... WHO R U PLEASE???

Written by Gyps, 16. Feb 2008 12:28 PM

Im sorry to here that you think Im a trouble maker, I realize now that some of my comments were a little blunt and Im truly sorry for that. I have now been reinstated, on the condition that I only leave positive comments, in which I will do.

I do wish that you do stay around as for the few bad apples, I have realized there is a lot of nice people here, who are non judgemental and very supportive.

Take care
Matt

Written by Deleted_User, 16. Feb 2008 12:33 PM

Hi Mikey
Im only new on this site but have gathered that there are some who just want to be spiteful.
Idont know you, butplease try and not take the nastines on board, it isthe one who is saying it that is the owner of it.
Ihave been looking for an honest site with honest folk for a while now and have my bad moments, but some good ones too. Dont let spiteful folk push you out. Some people really do care and want to listen.
You are a human being with feeling, thoughts and the ability to give and the right to receive help or comfort when you most need it.
take care mikey.
snapdragon

Written by snapdragon, 16. Feb 2008 12:35 PM

Mikey, mickey, mickey, sweetheart dont leave because of this people who me nothing to you. Don't let them win babe. That's what they want. For us to get upset and leave. Don't give them the satisfaction. You deserve to be here just as anyone else. You need us and we need you. Please dont go hunny.

Love, care and support always
Amanda xxxxx

Written by Deleted_User, 16. Feb 2008 01:16 PM

Mikey,

Sorry to see you leave depnet however I understand your reasons. It's difficult when you log on to chat to talk about something and find inconsiderate people not giving anyone a chance and putting people down.

Thankfully there are only a few of those but somehow they manage to leave people feeling like they have wasted their time.

My email and msn details are on my profile so if you would like to keep in touch as I would you may get them from there.

Take care Mikey and know you have plenty of support.

Jenny

Written by lifesucks, 16. Feb 2008 01:53 PM

Mike

I reported Returner after they left a nasty comment in my diary and a further comment in my diary that I caused problems for them - hey I don't even know who this person is but they have no right to make nasty comments several days ago. Nothappy has been told to stop being so blunt so hopefully Matt will take note of this request.

Hope all the support for you to stay makes you rethink your decision. You can call me/email me if you need to. I don't have msn so I can't get you there but I will try emailing you again to touch base with you.

Go Mike

Studying1

Written by studying1, 16. Feb 2008 04:38 PM

I like to thank everyone for there support here,im abit overwelmed by all your support, but im sorry, i do need to take a break for awhile for my own health. I am a kind and caring guy and the problem with that is i take things abit too much to heart. I just dont understand what these trouble makers get out of causing problems to other people. It just breaks my heart to see it happen.
I wish depnet upgrades their system so they can ban the IP addresses of the offenders, so we can have a more of a peacfull and supportive environment.
I wish you all good health.

Love

Mikey xxx

Written by Mikey, 16. Feb 2008 07:48 PM

Mikey, I am also sick and tired of those losers who are only here to cause trouble. We are a great community and they don't belong here with us decent folk who need this site..
I don't want you to go but if that's what you need to do to keep your health then so be it. I just hope that you can come back soon!
Wishing you all the very best,
Love Cheyne

Written by hippiechick, 16. Feb 2008 11:22 PM

Hi Mikey

I haven't been on since Friday arvo so don't know what went down, I will say u will be missed by me and others as well but take the time off to recuperate and get well, I hope u r ok and look forward to your return, like i said u will b missed.

All the best Al

Written by Al1970, 17. Feb 2008 02:59 PM