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To My Special Friend

A page in the diary "The Days Of My Life"
Written by lifesucks 12. Feb 2008 01:07 AM

Rarely does someone ever come into your life that you feel so connected to that you can share your innermost thoughts and secrets.

I was so lucky to experience this for the first time in my life ever and I am so grateful that I had that chance. That special person has now decided that they are causing me too much pain that they have set me free.

I lived with my walls up for years because I was terrified of being hurt. This time I trusted and opened my heart and accepted this person unconditionally. I loved them like family and I was told over and over that the feeling was returned.

I have no idea why I am not strong enough to deal with my past. It seems to keep surfacing constantly in my life.

Had I have been able to bury my feelings this friendship would never have ended the way it did. I honestly thought that I was accepted for who I was and that I didn't have to hide anything. I am who I am and who I am has never felt good enough for anyone. Sure I have other friends in my life but never one as close as I have been to this person.


To My Friend

I am so sorry that I was too much for you to deal with and know that I will never stop caring about you. You mean so much to me but to save you the pain I will accept your decision if that's what you really want. Take care and I love you.

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Comments from the community:

Life

You and this friend are lucky to have connected the way you did. I am sorry things haven't worked out as one would hope but I am sure your friend is doing what they think is best for you. Hopefully the connection can reignited at a later stage.

Be strong!!!

Go Life!!!

Studying1

Written by studying1, 12. Feb 2008 04:05 AM

I was deeply saddened by your diary entry today. Friends come and go, but true and life long friends are rare and need to be treasured. I would not have got through any of this if it wasn't for them and my wife.
It is because of them that when I was concidering ending it they were there in my thoughts and I just couldn't do it.
So your pain must be huge, but if you want friends, you have to make a choice, as I did and chose them, it has worked!
Jacko2

Written by Deleted_User, 12. Feb 2008 10:27 AM