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Written by zombieluv 17. Oct 2007 06:37 PM

we have these pet rabbits, up until last night they were the best of friends. all of a sudden they have turned on eachother and almost killed eachother. one of them had to go to the vet just now. i wonder why that happened.

i went to the genetic counsellor. i even took half a valium before i went so id be calm. in the waiting room i started to have a panic attack haha. i was freaking out because i didn't want to burst out crying and have her think it was because of this test. i could tell the second she looked at me. unfortunately its not good news, she says. ok. my anxiety dissipated for some reason. i can deal. its not a big deal.

she's really nice. i like her a lot. i wish she was a gp.

so maybe it's slightly worrying. but im only 22, i dont need to worry about it for another eight years. but im glad i found out. i found out because i think of all the women who could have had it better if they'd known about it. i feel like i owe it to them to take advantage of this predictive testing.

so basically, this gene is very strong in my family, my fathers side. the women who have it, have cancer. my uncle who is an oncologist says theres no buts about it, the gene means cancer. i just hope im not too young. then again, i could die in a car accident tomorrow and all this worry would be for nothing. im sure in a week it wont even be on my mind.

so im not sure how i feel today.

in ottawa the other night, at a bruce springsteen concert, win & regine from arcade fire sang 'state trooper' with him. my two favourite artists doing on of my favourite songs. i highly reccomend watching the video.

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Comments from the community:

sorry about the bad news but at least you know now... Perhaps you should have a test done now to make sure you are clear of breast cancer.... I know you said you dont need to worry for another 8 years but I know of someone on here who lost his wife to breast cancer about 6 months ago....... she was 27......

have the test done hun, better to be safe than sorry....

wishing u the best of luck, if you have regular screenings done from now on they will hopefully catch it in time if/when you do develop it.

mmmwa
xxx

oh ask your uncle coz its ???estrogen??? that feeds breast cancer?? you need to find out so if you take any hormonal supplements or the pill it wont increase your risks of cancer

Written by Deleted_User, 17. Oct 2007 06:58 PM

You can't keep male rabbits together. In fact male rabbits are not ok to keep as pets at all. They get to 6 months then they can be really really nasty. Turn into monsters overnight. It's good there is the benefit of genetic testing for breast cancer, means you will be rigourous about regular checks, never let that lapse. Go the ultrasounds, the mammograms are damn uncomfortable, if you have the choice.
All the best.

Written by Deleted_User, 17. Oct 2007 07:14 PM

Zombie

I think Gyps is right - have a test now if it is possible and not stress for eight years over the gene/lump. Have a chat with your uncle - have all the women in the family got it - fathers sisters/wife/kids. Better to have the test now so you know where you stand.

Go Zombie!!!

Studying1

Written by studying1, 17. Oct 2007 07:59 PM