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Doona Day and Petrified of Loosing My House/Security!!!

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Written by studying1 13. May 2008 07:24 PM

Migraine, meds and sleep. Heard hubby get up and go to volunteer work. He called to see what we had on on Thursday - trying to go to something to stop smoking - hope he goes as his smoking has gotten very bad over the previous months.

Sent my solicitor several emails, I couldn't sleep last night because I am so scared of loosing the house/my financial security - so there are instructions to find out what offer the crown will settle on/at and then I might accept it and not go to court or if it is not enough, I will go to court.

Hubby is supportive of the decision to go to court. Queen Bee doesn't know about it yet - can't tell her my house is at risk of being lost if I loose the case and have to pay the crowns costs. Hubby said we are in this for the long haul and I support what you have done and I think you made the right decision because you would not be happy with the settlement if you accepted it.

Thank you all for your support and thoughts. Keep me in them so I don't loose my house. I don't want to have to go and live with my in laws - they are nice but the farm is cold in winter and hot in summer.

Had a doona day today as I was so tired from the lack of sleep I had last night worrying about what I had done by agreeing to go to court.

Take Care All and please keep us in your thoughts and prays.

Mrs Studying1

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Comments from the community:

I don't pray, but if I did I would for you to keep your house and get a good settlement.

Written by maple, 13. May 2008 07:48 PM

Mrs Studying1,

You are in my thoughts and "higher thoughts". I don't believe in God, but I do believe in a higher power, so I'm out there wishing on the stars for you to have a good outcome with court.

Regards,
Fly xxx

Written by fly, 13. May 2008 08:50 PM

Dear and sweet Mrs studying,

please try not to fret about the situation you are in. I notice you refer to your abode as a house noy a home. That I find very interesting. It is worth remembering that your home is where your heart is and at the moment your heart is with your new Hubby so that is where your home is. I know it would be a terrible thing to lose your house. I really don't know what that is like as I have rented my whole life and so I have never had the oportunity to buy a house and turn it into a home. At the same time the house I live in is my home even thogh it is rented. This isbecause that is where my beloved is also. That and the fact that I have a long term lease which means I have security for the first time in my adult life.

I believe in you very much like your husnabd does and I believe that you are making the right decision to persue the case and get as much as you can. I how ever would caution you to be resonable as well so that you do not got through any unessesary expense.

yes I will pray for both you and your hubby and you are both in my thoughts and my prayers and I do believe that it will all work out for the best.

Love and support always. (yes I know it is mushy)

Bassman.

Written by Bassman, 13. May 2008 09:07 PM

hello,

I will pray for you tonight, however if you do lose your house I believe you have the strength to cope and carry on.

If things become overwhelming remember that though it may be an extremeley difficult time, it is not the end of the world. I mean this in its literal sense where by you still have the chance to start again with our and your professionals support.

Chin up babe, we are here for you and even though inconvieniant you have family to support you till both of you are back on your feet. I truely hope things improve for you and please keep us updated.

Bluewave
xxoo

Written by bluewave, 13. May 2008 09:21 PM

Hey Mrs. Studying,

I wanted to write you before to tell you how great you look on your wedding photo. I'm happy about now knowing the face behind the name and the diaries. You look very happy, and really beautiful.

Don't know the whole story about your court case - but I wish you luck to win the case or at least to find a solution without losing your house/security. Don't worry too much.

Love,
Luise.

Written by Luise, 14. May 2008 01:25 AM

studying1,

Hang in there and I hope you get some info from your solicitor soon and you can settle before you need to experience the hell of court.

Great to see hubbie is so supportive of you. The farm may not be your cup of tea, but at least you have somewhere to go should worst case scenario happen.

Hope you enjoyed your doona day, I think I could do with one of those soon.

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