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A page in the diary "She who must be obeyed thinks she is always right!!!"
Written by studying1 11. May 2008 09:26 PM

Migraine, meds and sleep. Hubby came home and I ended up moving beds because he wasn't using is cpap machine and the snoring was horried. He seems to forget about my sleeping a migraine off when he comes home and wakes me up. The other thing is he doesn't always have a shower before he comes to bed and I can't stand the bed smelling like a cigarette - yuck!!!! He doesn't get that one.

I got up and rang Queen Bee to wish her happy mother's day - hubby was still asleep so we didn't get to see them. She is going to post hubby his belated birthday present and some wedding photos she took on the day. It was like she didn't want us to visit today - she seems so different since we got married - I can't put it in words but she doesn't have the financial tie over me any more and we are paying our own way but that isn't all of it. She has changed to become a different person and I really don't know who she is/what has caused this change.

Hubby finally got up and had to go and deliver a lost mobile phone to a fare he had last night in the cab. We went to the local shops - he to get smokes and me to get my weeks supply of my meds.

He then went to the house and no one was there - except these two dogs and the beware of the dog sign. He went in and wondered around and no one came to the door. I suggested to him to put the phone in the mail box so he did that.

We then went to see his mum - thankfully I have a box of ebay gifts so I took something out that is suitable for an amputee - had a small bath bomb in it but it had moisturiser and shower gel in it and an exfoliator. She liked it. We had a bite to eat and then hubby's cousin and family arrived and we chatted/ate some more. Hubby's mum called his sister and she came up but she wasn't very polite to me - was the reason I didn't want to go to his parents place because of her but I got through it just. We left and came home.

Caught up on my emails and depnet diary entries.

I thank all you deppies who have coommented on my wedding photo. Cate for the record, still waiting for the dress - they are behind in the boxing of dresses because of the fire. They have found hubbies suit and part of my dress. Hopefully we will get the call to come and pick it up soon. Want it boxed as it keeps better than just hanging up.

Happy Mother's Day to all you mum's, grannies, depnet mums. Hope you all had a good day.

Did a letter of complaint again to the wedding reception venue managers - we haven't got a reply to my letter of 4/4/08. Am also waiting to hear from Mobydisc about the complaint I put in about their DJ who did the wedding and wouldn't stay for another two hours as agreed to in the booking.

Dreading tomorrow and the visit with the solicitor. Hope we can come to some decision about settling or going to the tribunal for the hearing of my case. Crown are bastards - have always tried to settle at $60K and that is nothing when I have lost past economic earnings and my future economic earnings seem to be non existen/low as my psychiatrist won't let me go back to work/studying until I am well enough to cope with it and who knows when that may be - hopefully once a decision is made about the court case or could it be longer when meds are reviewed and I sort my health issues out.

Take Care All!!!

Mrs Studying1

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Comments from the community:

Mrs Studying1

Well seems you had a good day... after all. You have lots to do tomorrow dealing with the solicitor...
good luck...

take care

rgds
cate

Written by cateblack, 11. May 2008 09:40 PM

Hi Mrs Studying,

Thank you for your happy mothers day wishes, I had a terrific day thank you.

Good luck for tomorrow with your solicitor, I hope it all goes well for you.

Warm wishes,

Fly xxx

Written by fly, 11. May 2008 09:58 PM

I dont get it... Why are you financially independant just coz you got married? Cant see how a piece of paper makes you financially independant...

Written by Gyps, 12. May 2008 08:17 AM

Hi studying1,

Sounds like you and hubby still have soem work to do on the sleeping agreement.

I am confused, I thought you wanted your Mum to back off, and last week you were happy she had not rung you? Maybe she is just doing that, backing off and doing what she is told to do for once. Why does it bother you why this has happened, if it is what you have wanted all along?

Good luck at the solicitor and I hope you find the answers you need. Hope it does not mean the hearing going ahead, and you can settle before that as it sounds as though the hearing is not what you need at this stage.

Hang in there and I hope it gets better for you soon.



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