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Written by babz 23. Jan 2008 11:06 AM

Well, three weeks of hospital and I have once again been unleashed on the poor unsuspecting world - hehe.

I've only been home a bit under an hour but I feel OK. Exhausted, but OK. There were lots of hugs, kisses and tears shed as I said my goodbyes, I feel very blessed to have made friends with some of the people I did. I think that it was these people and the nurses - not the pills and doctors - that have made me OK with who I am and where I am in my life.

I remember I was telling one of the nurses about how this 'isn't who I'm supposed to be' and she told me that it was part of my journey. This annoyed me, I thought she was being a cop out by saying that bad things can happen just because they're meant to, but now I think she's right. The people I met were all wonderful, kind souls but all fighting their own demons like I am. They were people that don't deserve this heartache, but I have learnt so much from them and they apparently learnt so much from me - maybe it is part of my journey.

I rediscovered myself in hospital, I got in touch with the me that I shoved out a long time ago because she wasn't who I 'should' be. The one who loved art and would get lost in her own world of colour and texture, the one who let herself cry when she needed to cry, the one who knew that reaching out for help was a sign of strength and not of weakness, the person that knew she wasn't perfect but loved herself anyway. I don't really recognise her, and she still gets shoved to the side, but she is getting stronger and so far I like her a hell of a lot more than the person that replaced her. I do realise I sound like a hippie on pot, but I'm in a very contemplative mood at the moment.

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Comments from the community:

Babz

Good to read you are home and did a lot of comtemplating and met supportive people. This hopefully will give you the support and self worth you deserve.

Go Babz!!!

Studying1

Written by studying1, 23. Jan 2008 12:27 PM

Hi Babz, I'm pretty new here on Depnet, but just wanted to let you know that I thought your entry today was awesome, good on you for seeing the positives in your experience and moving on in your life. I'm so glad that have been able to come out of hospital accepting of yourself, with new friends and a new sense of who you want to be. Take care Babz, From Riles

Written by riles, 23. Jan 2008 02:12 PM

In my eyes you really are a shining star. Well done gorgeous. I am so proud of you. I believe in you.

Kimberly
xoxo

Written by Wolveress, 23. Jan 2008 03:14 PM

BABZ Glad that your hospital stay helped. Now just take each day slowly not putting to much pressure on yourself, I know after my last hospital stay I had a little crash from doing to much and missing the supports I had in hospital. Tc

Written by Deleted_User, 23. Jan 2008 04:25 PM

Hi Babz, glad to hear you are home from hospital. Take one day at a time and be kind to yourself. You are getting stronger each day, and you will get there - The light at the end of the tunnel is getting closer.
Take care and looking forward to chatting with you soon
Chookie

Written by chookie67, 23. Jan 2008 07:37 PM

Hey babz...

Welcome back!

Love,
Luise.

Written by Luise, 24. Jan 2008 09:33 AM

Dear Babz,
No - all sounds good - well done honey.
Hugs
A

Written by winterrain, 24. Jan 2008 11:39 AM

Glad you are back babz. and glad you are feeling betetr. take care love.

WD

Written by WhiteDove, 24. Jan 2008 12:37 PM