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Written by bluewave 3. Apr 2008 03:57 PM

Hey Guys,

It's been awhile since I have made an entry. To update you all, I have resigned from ym stock broking job where I had an affair with my Boss who turned out to be a very aggressive drunk.

I ended the relationship last year but was still working there, however whether intimate or not he was still a very unpredictable drunk.

When I resigned a couple of months ago I kinda cracked and ended up in the clinic again for the depression. I now have a new job and feeling much better. I have also addressed my own alcohol problem and have been a lot more open to my parents and sisters.

Life is getting better, the pain from the past still hurts so much, it tears my heart up but hen I just get up, dust myself off and move on.

It's been a difficult past few months but staring my life all over again is great. I feel pure again and I want to change to be the woman I also wanted to be.

I am going back to university next semester and working til then. I feel free again, sometimes I feel ver alone but I know I can get through this.

I just have to survive this year and prove to myself that there is more to life than my past.

I want to be better, I am better and improving each day. I am no longer so obsessed about myself and now I really want to reach out to people again and help others, I feel soul coming up from hell and back into my heart again :)

Bluewave

luv you all

xxoo

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Comments from the community:

Blue

What courage you have to stay there and work after an affair and then finally leave. You did well to cope with it for as long as you did.

You are a strong person to cope with that and cope with being in the clinic for depression.

I am glad you have a new job and it is working out for you.

You will get over the pain - just takes time - I know from my affair with my best friends hubby.

You will be the woman you wanted to be because you have stopped the affair and left the situation that was bad for you.

Good luck with uni!!! I am jealous and going to have to talk to my psychiatrist about returning next semester or going to TAFE.

Good to read you want to get better and through this year. You will do it and then you will wonder what you were stressing about.

Go Blue!!!

Mrs Studying1

Written by studying1, 3. Apr 2008 07:55 PM

Well done Blue,
I'm really proud of you! The first step is deciding to move on, and it looks like you've made that decision by making plans for the future. I'm starting to do that now, but I had to hit rock bottom first, and nearly didn't come through it. You're not alone, we're all working through issues of one sort or another on this site. Lots of good luck and positivity for the future! What are you going to study at Uni? I am doing legal admin at tafe, and finding it really interesting--but its dam hard work.

Written by survivor, 3. Apr 2008 08:37 PM