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The BOSS, the LETTER

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Written by bluewave 25. Jan 2008 02:54 PM

Hi all,

My boss is due in within 20 minutes I have 'the letter' in his inbox...I have thought long and hard about this. The letter is strictly confidential and informal. It is not nasty in any way but simply states the facts. I do not want to take Boss to court but hopefully my efforts serve as a warning.

My psychologist thought the letter meant a huge improvement for me...she didn't want me to give it today coz she said I was very vunerable at the moment and when on the piss the boss can turn nasty. But I neeeeed to do this, for me.

He may simply laugh at it or casually take it in but I think I must do this.

I am feeling nervous and tired, my heart is pounding with excitement to see him because I still love him but my heart is also pounding because I am so very anxious and heisitant with what his arrival may mean.

I still feel very unstable and just so exhausted but I hope I can ride this low out

bluewave
xxoo

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Bluewave

I hope you are up to this decision and nothing comes back to hurt you. I hope you have contacted your union about the matter and they are in the loop/picture about things.

Best of luck Bluewave!!!

Go Bluewave!!!

Studying1

Written by studying1, 25. Jan 2008 03:09 PM

Good on you it's not easy to put a complaint in and yes i'm speaking for experience, i had to go over the bosses and directors heads cause they refused to acknowledge what had happened- they even told me that the insident would be sweeped under the carpet and if i mentioned it that would be my job. Well threats don't worry me and i told- ha! I was sexually assaulted by a work colleague- yeah that doesn't go down well with me. I don't let anyone get away with that lightly- so i told the police and the nurses board (yeah i'm a nurse- sad really when there's a nurse out there who assaults women) he's not a first time offender either, but he is good at getting away with it. i was bullied more at work after that to try and shut me up. So much so that i had to leave that hospital cause i wasn't standing for bullying. As you can probably tell i
m still a bit (ok a lot) angry and upset about the situation. So take it from me and go for it tell the people that need to do something so it stops!!!

Good on you.

Take care, love em

Written by esp, 25. Jan 2008 11:49 PM

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