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Written by bluewave 4. Feb 2007 02:25 PM

I am hurting so much, my heart feels like it is exploding and my stomach is aching. On friday night I went drinking with my boyfriend and work mates. I drank a lot, too much. Towards end of night I started to feel really weird, I had been sick whole week, but at that moment felt really sick and worried.

I went to Mc Donalds to get a drink I was so thirsty. Boyfriend just wanted to go to next bar, I told him to go and leave me even though I wanted him to wait for me. Befor i knew it I was lying in alley way, crying, lying on my back. I don't know what happened. I rang him and was screaming and he just said "it's ok you are ok, just meet me at bar."

I was so upset, seriously felt like I couldn't physically move. But I forced myself up because lying in alley way probably a lot more dangerous. My boyfriend was acting really distant. He was worried about me but because he didn't know what to do he just pretended like I was fine. I couldn't stop crying
I feel so embarrassed. I was like a zombie and sitting on chair inside bar, with head down, crying. I sat like that for ages. Then i saw him talking to a really absolutely, beautiful blonde woman. She must of been a model, seriously georgeous and perfect. I was no match for her!

It broke my heart! I felt so UGLY I felt fat and worthless, why didn't he come to comfort me, why didn't he hold my hair back while I vommitted, why didn't he stay with me. Why was he talking to some chick when it was visiably obvious that there was something seriously wrong with me. I even asked him to take me to a hospital. How could he just leave me there, he always makes me drink too much, and sometimes pot too. I never say no, so it's my own fault. he is beautiful and I love him, but he was selfish that night. i felt so alone!

I was like a zombie the next day too. I felt and still feel physically weird. I felt like I couldn't move my arms or legs. really weird. My stomach is aching like hell because yesterday I ate and ate and ate, I ate so much I swear my stomach could have burst!

Now I am just feeling flat and angry, I feel so irritated!!!!!!!! Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!! Oh god!, I was going to cut last night, but I did not :) still my heart is breaking, I feel stupid and hurt and ashamed.

bluewave
:'(

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Comments from the community:

bluewave

I don't know what to really say to you. I am sorry you had to experience what you did and glad you didn't harm yourself. You should drink for yourself and not your boyfriend and if he is not really there for you when you need him, it sounds like you maybe better without him. You have enough to deal with without a token boyfriend. Call your gp in the morning and try and see them/tell them what happened on Friday. I hope you a really okay and nothing serious happened.

Studying1

Written by studying1, 4. Feb 2007 02:30 PM

Well, you did carry on a treat.....chalk it up to experience..lucky you got off lightly. We all do these things...occasionally. I don't anymore, because I don't want to fish my dentures out of a toilet bowl somewhere.
Regards.

Written by Deleted_User, 4. Feb 2007 02:56 PM

I'll go with Studying1 on this one Bluewave, hard as it is, when you love someone. You've got to try & take an objective look at things. Like, what would you say to a girlfriend who had this experience???
Please take care,
Geo xo

Written by Deleted_User, 4. Feb 2007 06:19 PM

Hi Bluewave,

Im with studying too on this. Your boyfriend didnt even try to find you in this alley when you rang him. You could have been seriously hurt.

You are not stupid and there is no need to feel ashamed at all. Youre not the first person to drink too much and you certainly wont be the last.
please take care

franmar

Written by franmar, 5. Feb 2007 09:24 PM