TIME to LOVE our BODIES
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Written by bluewave 23. Jun 2008 06:07 PM
Hi my dear depnet buddies.
I have been doing well this week and I have kept up my constructive activities the only thing that is bringing me down is the body issues.
I feel unattractive and it's currently the only issue that is not allowing me to move on, It's powerful and my weight has always controlled my life.
But guys I say stuff it! It's time to love our bodies, who cares about what society and MEDIA tell us what to look like. How can anyone expect us to even lose weight or work out when we don't love ourselves and feel so completely cut down.
I am telling my self that yes I have a terrible stomach now because of the stretch marks and from the weight I gained, but hey I have great breasts and I like my eyes and everyone envy my lips. So girls and guys we are beautiful!
I have had enough of my self critical negative words I tell myself over and over. We need to start looking at our selves less critically and realize that we do have great aspects to our bodies too.
Something Carson said on an episode of 'How to look good naked' was "you don't have to be perfect to look pretty"
Damn right! :) I am going to try and really make an effort now to accept the parts I don't like and embrace the parts I do like. Big girls, skinny girls all woman are beautiful!
Woman get it so hard when it comes to looks and enough is enough, we are more than just our bodies and normal woman do not look like the crazy unrealistic models on front of magazines and bill boards.
I am beginning to love myself for who and what I am. I hope all of you can start being kind to yourselves too, just give it a go.
Bluewave
xxoo :) :) :)