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Written by Tazzy17 18. May 2008 06:56 PM

well i managed to get in contact with my friend who hasnt spoken to me in a month... and it will be the last time i contact her.

she is on drugs, big time. and she is having such a great time she doesn't want to stop. so i wont have anything to do with her. i feel that her behavior is a danger to me and my unborn baby. i don't want anything to do with it.

she visited me today and i could tell she was under the influence. she was even talking about the pills in front of me, describing them in detail. she knows i don't like that stuff... i had my small amount of fun years ago and i don't ever want to be around it again! i've seen it all before with a close family member. i know what it looks like.

i just feel so sorry for her daughter. my friend was a mess, she really was. but she wont admit it.

if she wanted help i would help her, but i have so many issues myself, with this pregnancy and going back on meds. i will talk to my psych about it but i think she will agree. i just need to walk away and think about how to protect myself and my family. i have bigger things to worry about. this "friend" is not a friend anymore.

in a way i'm glad she came over... for me it was closure. i know the friendship didn't go wrong because of something i did. she has simply gone in a very different direction to me. i hope she realises it before something bad happens, but its up to her family to help her now...

otherwise, i've been feeling a little bit better today now that my birthday is over with.

hope everyone is well
tazzy
xoxoxo

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Comments from the community:

Tazzy

I am glad to read this diary.

You are right, you have to put you and the baby first and to know it was not you that caused the change in the friendship is a good thing.

Be there for her if she needs help but do the smart thing and stay away. Look after you and bubs - they are your priority.

Go Tazzy!!!

Mrs Studying1

Written by studying1, 18. May 2008 08:40 PM

Tazzy

Glad you contacted your friend ... now you know it is not you...

You sound so much better and in control

Have a good pregnancy you are doing well...

take care

rgds
cate

Written by cateblack, 18. May 2008 10:57 PM