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Written by Tazzy17 25. Jan 2008 02:46 AM

well im nearly 7 weeks pregnant now according to my first ultrasound. somebody overheard me tell a friend about my ultrasound appointment and decided that they would personally tell as many people as they could that i was pregnant, just to see their reactions! it really hurt me that someone could be so horrible like that. due to the risk of miscarriage i didnt want anyone to know just yet - i didnt want to run the risk.

its been a nightmare with people who dont like me having a go at me because im pregnant. its my life, and dons ex girlfriend in particular is just trying to upset me, just because her life is so great, she has his 2 daughters and he never gets to see them!

so i had to tell my mother i was pregnant - better that she heard it from me, then got it secondhand from someone else. she's not talking to me right now - and i am not going anywhere near my dad for a while because he may attack my fiance... the thing that my mother is hoping for right now is that i miscarriage. it was the only thing i could say to stop her from yelling at me... that theres still a high chance of miscarriage. what mother actually hopes her daughter loses their baby... its so cruel.

i have really bad morning sickness too, and it makes me feel pretty depressed sometimes. i have been getting very emotional, which is to be expected. i just hope it all gets better. my fiance is happy about the pregnancy, so am i - why cant my family either learn to live with it - or just leave us alone, they dont have to have anything to do with us and the child if they dont want to!

anyway, im feeling quite sick so i better go rest... hopefully my next entry is a bit happier.

tazzy

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Comments from the community:

Hi Tazzy,

I know where youre coming from. My Mum told me 27yrs ago that she hopes my baby dies.When they broke my water, the babys heartbeat slowed down and I was was being taken to theatre, I though "shes got her way" He was fine. The toilet bowl was also my best friend and we hugged every single day. You hang in there, as you wil be so pleased with the end result. Take care and make the most of being pregnant, as it can be a great time.
Les

Written by Deleted_User, 25. Jan 2008 08:39 AM

Tazzy

Think positively and this will be a wonderfull pregnancy for you and your partner. You obviously are in the right head space for this decision.

As for your work colleague, I would have a chat about how your feel. Give your mother some time and hopefully she will come round.

Keep well and take care of yourself.

Go Tazzy!!!

Studying1

Written by studying1, 25. Jan 2008 01:54 PM