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Tough situation you're in...but at least you have the comfort in knowing that your fiance is sticking by you for support, despite all her pestering.

I hope you will be able to find a way to solve the problem you have with her.

Written by a-Leng, 16. Feb 2006 08:29 PM

I really don't know what gives some women the satisfaction when they continue to contact and sms their ex's when they know damn well they are in another relationship. Maybe she is jealous or just out to give you a hard time. You are lucky that Don is honest about her contacting him and that he is not hiding it from you. At least you know he is committed to you. If she doesn't stop doing this, then maybe there is no other option but to get your phone numbers changed. Good luck!

Take care from
Shadowdancer xxx

Written by Deleted_User, 16. Feb 2006 09:51 PM

Hey there sweety :)

(((((BIG HUG)))))

That ex sure sounds like a piece of work to me! It sounds like she is doing her hardest to try to break you & Don up. I don't know how I would cope, I'm sure it would hurt me like hell too. Just don't let her know how much it is hurting you, then you'll be giving her what she wants - to hurt you.

She obviously wants to make you paranoid, thinking that you will fight with Don and maybe break it off with him. That's probably what she's thinking and wants to happen. Don't let her win.

On the other hand - and I'm not saying this to hurt you but just want you to think about it - how do you know what Don has said to her? It just reminds me so much of my situation, except I was the ex. But I wasn't anywhere near as bad as her - I left them alone when he made it clear he wanted to stay with her. But I know that my ex was telling me one thing (that he still loved me & wanted to be with me) and saying completely different stuff to her (that I was annoying him and he didn't love me, he didn't know why I was hanging around, that I was stalking him). I just don't want you to be blinded by your love for Don and I DEFINITELY don't want you to get hurt in all this.

Please look after yourself, that's the most important thing! :)

Luv, ((hugz)) & smiles
Gidge
xoxox

Written by Gidge, 16. Feb 2006 10:00 PM