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Written by Tazzy17 4. Oct 2005 01:24 PM

i have so much on my mind at the moment! i feel so overwhelmed... yesterday my boyfriend and his mate went out of town to look at a car... i tagged along and got them to drop me off at my grandmothers place for a couple of hours! i hadnt seen her in many many months...

i told her everything... my depression... the panic attacks. and i mentioned the b/f. but i told her hes just a very very good friend. she doesnt care about the age diff of the fact that he has kids already - i think shes just glad to see me happy!

the b/f is looking at places around town to move into - i will be going with him... i just havnt told my parent yet - i dont think they will be to happy at all!!! and i still havnt been back to work... its been over a month now! i dont know what to do! i have cancelled 2 appointments with my case manager... ive just been so... pre-occupied.

i still have to learn to drive. everytime the oppourtunity comes up - everyones busy... my dad has been on my back about it. but even he refuses to take me most of the time. its not my fault. its not for a lack of trying thats for sure!!!

in still tired most of the time. the b/f's flatmate has found out that we are a couple now - and refuses to have me in the house! but i cant help how he thinks... not my problem... ive tried my best!

um... my oldest brother is having his 30th birthday party this weekend. as we arent speaking i guess ill be staying home by myself again... i miss my little neice... ive missed out on the first 5 months of her life. and i think ill be missing out on much more. this is all because my mother spoke to him whilst i was in hospital... he didnt even come to see me... he wanted to punch my lights out apparently... doesnt even care to hear my side of the story... but whats new... i just wish i had one family member to confide into - the family is just torn apart now and i cant do anything about it!

i cant wait to get out of home... i will never be moving back in here - i dont care if i end up with nothing... no money... i cant live here anymore.

its like... life is at a standstill... its going no-where... im not living here - im barely surviving. i just feel so numb while im here!!! i try to get out as much as possible... but sometimes i just cant - because the b/f workes - he has his kids to worry bout... i cant go to his place cos of the flatmate... so i dont know what to do - arghhhh!!

well i guess i cant count myself as baing very very lucky to have my boyfriend!!! he is my light - my guide... my one and only friend in all this and if it werent for him i wouldnt be here... i remember what it was like before he came into my life - i had nothing!!! now i have something to live for - so i just have to think positivly!!! i will be fine - i know it!

well i better go now.
seeya
tazzy
xoxoxo

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Comments from the community:

Hi,
Have just been reading your diary today.I'm glad to hear all is well with the b/f. Have you thought of writing a letter to your brother and explaining your side of the story??? Even if he wont talk to you it is no reason not to be involved in your nieces life..

I think trying to get back to work would be a good distraction for you for a while, as for the cancelled appointments with the case worker, are you finding them helpful or not?? Try and make that effort just for YOU.

take care of yourself.
take all the postive and keep it close
love michelle. xoxo

Written by mickey2, 4. Oct 2005 06:58 PM

Hi Tazzy,

Sounds like a bit of a mixed time at the moment... I know what it's like to miss out on peoples lives because you have issues with someone else... Maybe take your neice out occassionally if that's possible. I agree a letter might be an option?! I missed about the last 3 years of my godsons life (and his sister who thinks she is my goddaughter but isn't but i still treat her like she is) it's one of the most painful things to happen. I miss the kids but I can't go back to the emotional things that happened with their mother I love the kids dearly but it's just not feasible to go back to it maybe whwn the kids are older I can explain it to them but in the mean time I am just waiting and hoping that they are ok.

I don't know I know I am not much help but I hope thigs improve for you soon.

Take care
Kristy

Written by Anonymous, 4. Oct 2005 09:39 PM

Hi Tazzy!

I am glad for you that you got to talk to your Grandmother! That must have helped a real lot to get that off you chest to someone who didn't judge you!

Good luck with learning to drive! I wish you all the very best with it! I am sorry to hear it is so difficult to get some time though.

Like Michelle said, a letter may be a good idea for your brother. I wish you all the very best with it! I hope you can sort something out!

I hope you are going alright at the moment! I wish you all the very best with all you do!

Cheers,
Michael

Written by Anonymous, 5. Oct 2005 07:13 PM