About depression Help with depression Help for relatives Society DepNet Community My Depression

Read diary

it pays to be pushy

A page in the diary "The S**t in my life"
Written by esp 3. Jan 2006 01:26 PM

well today I thought i'd absolutely had enough of my tachycardia and shortness of breath. So I went to the hospital- and was really pushy with them, not leaving til they did something. Anyways it worked- and the doctor got me an earlier referral to see a cardiologist (not mine) and have an echocardiogram (ultrasound of the heart)on the 12th. Plus put me on medication to slow my heart rate down- about bloody time. Gees sometimes you have to keep getting second opinions, and if your not satisfied with an answer get another one. Cause you know your body better than they do, so you know when somethings not right. I think alot of the time doctors just look at the evidence like blood tests and ECG results- when they don't look at the whole picture. Such a mistake. And if they can't think of what it is they make something up, or worse they say it's anxiety or mental thing. Don't get me wrong that can be the reason sometimes. But the evidence in my case did not prove that- like why on exertion do I get more short of breath and tachycardic? So yeah my advice is keep seeking answers, no body is perfect and sometimes dr's miss things. Which has been proven. Woeking as a nurse I fequently see readmittance of pts cause the doctor missed something the first time. I had to be strong today and be my own advocate cause noone else was going to be... Take care all
love em

« Prev page | Next page »
 

Comments from the community:

Dearest Em,

We need to be our own advocates when it comes to our health and well being. No one knows us like our selves.

I'm so glad to read you have an earlier referral and also recieved some meds.

"Good for you Em" :)

I send you MUCH SUPPORT, HOPE, LIGHT & LOVE.

Take extra care of your self at the momment.

xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxxo

Written by shelley, 3. Jan 2006 09:44 PM

Thanks heaps Shelley. I really need the support at the moment, you have no idea how much it means to me.

love em

Written by esp, 3. Jan 2006 09:48 PM

Good for you Em,

Unfortunately you are right about being pushy. Sometimes you need to be pushy and make a fuss to get the attention you need & deserve. The quiet, timid ones always get overlooked.

I'm happy for you that you got an earlier appt with the cardiologist. I hope that now you'll get the answers you need.

Keep your chin up Em, and keep fighting! :)

Luv, ((hugz)) & smiles
Gidge
xoxox

Written by Gidge, 3. Jan 2006 11:09 PM

Thanks for your response about therapy. Its good to know its ok not to know the answer.

I hope your referral comes soon.

Take care lf

Written by lf, 4. Jan 2006 03:41 AM