I lost my husband who was the most magical of men.
Written by
Yanis
14. Aug 2004 12:23 AM
I lost my husband who was the most magical of men. To explain the love we had is impossible. I just want to die to be with him. Can this be so wicked? We lived for each other yet people tell me if I choose to join him then we will never meet again. Is there really such a thing as reincarnation? I need to know.
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Yanis.. No one really knows the answer to your que
Written by
SmileyKylie
23. Aug 2004 02:12 PM
Yanis.. No one really knows the answer to your question, it is one of those questions of life we all ask. I am very sorry for your loss!! It must be so very very difficult to deal with.. and your feelings of despair are very natural. What you really need to ask yourself is - What would your Husband want for you!! I am more than positive that with the love you described between the two of you, the last thing he would want is for your life to end just because his did!! I am sure he would want you to always keep him in your heart.. and gain strength from his love. He would probably want you to be Happy and make the most of your life!! Not waste it by ending it!! While you live Yanis, so does your love for each other - keep his memory and love alive with you! Hold it close to your heart.. as he is ALWAYS WITH YOU!!!
I wish you all the best Yanis, it will slowly get a little easy as time goes by.. Kylie
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Love the memory
Written by
Templdust
16. Mar 2008 02:45 PM
Stay with us, Yanis. You can do a lot of people some good here, but reincarnation just couldn't be true- there have been far too many living things for them all to have somewhere else to go. You must be hurting horribly, but just look at how so many people in the world must have got through their bereavement before you- you can do it too, as you are not that different. You are just as strong as the average person who gets through it all.
Try one little thing each day- pick some flowers, watch a new show on TV, get a new pet, take the dog to the groomers, make a new friend on FAcebook- just one little thing that you don't really feel like doing- just one per day! It works for me.
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